I know I haven’t posted an entry in 7 years, but I need somewhere anonymous to vent. (I met someone through a dating app I continued seeing, though I’d also already abandoned this page by then.)

Dear Ugly Troll Man,

My boyfriend of over four years and I have been in a very happy and healthy relationship. We do things our way and it works for us regardless of your opinion on it. He invited me to a destination wedding for his best friend which I was excited about attending. He paid for my non refundable flights and resort stay with extended nights for us to enjoy the trip on our own as well. You have never exchanged more than a couple of a minutes worth of words with me accumulatively in the four years I’ve been in my relationship. That was your choice. I was always kind to you and offered you sweets to share I’d brought my boyfriend as I understand you share a living space. I stayed out of your way, quiet, and never left my boyfriend’s bedroom when I spent the night once or twice a month all these years. I know you’re the best man at this wedding, but that doesn’t give you the right to decide the guest list when the bride and groom were happy to have me attend as my boyfriend’s plus one. Your forbidding me from going and threatening to kick my boyfriend out of his home has caused him to question giving up our entire relationship because he wants to be a loyal friend to you. You forced him to move in with you because you couldn’t afford this place on your own and now that you can and he can’t and you have no reason left to use him, you want to toss him aside. Your narcissistic and psychopathic need to control is ruining our lives and I don’t understand why you choose to be so cruel. How dare you try to convince him I’m the one controlling him and making him miserable. You don’t even let him talk to you about me or feel grateful for anything he does for you. You don’t deserve an inch of the success and fame you just stepped into, but I’m convinced it only happened so when karma catches up to you she can tear you down that much further. You’re the most disgustingly toxic person I’ve ever known; And believe me I’ve known some real pieces of sh*t, but I still want to respect my boyfriend’s bizarre attachment to friendship loyalty despite how horrible they may be and have remained willing to *befriend* you to make him happy. It’s you who doesn’t give a crap about him, who refuses to even get to know me. It’s you who insists on believing these stories about me you made up in your head that you base your opinion of me on. My boyfriend and all your other mutual friends know none of it is true, but believing it gives you an excuse to not acknowledge how truly despicable of a person you are. You have caused so much damage to my boyfriend and myself emotionally, mentally, and financially, and if you really do cost me this entire relationship I will no longer owe you any courtesy I currently give you for my boyfriend’s sake.

-The person who will take you down one day, one way or another