Usually I’m not this bitchy…But I was in a crappy mood and I’m checking my messages on dating sites and I see this message. Why would your initial message be an insult? How could this dude possibly expect me to react positively to a message asking if my interests have turned me into a “crazy” person, and then try to play it off as a serious question. I was also surprised at how defensive he became considering I just glanced at his profile picture and quickly thought of a return insult without even clicking on his profile. Apparently it was a sensitive topic for him. What I really don’t understand is that a week later (tonight) he sent me that last message on the bottom. (I haven’t responded.) It’s not the first time I’ve ended or ignored a message only to have someone start the conversation new a week later…even when the previous messages are sitting right above it.
I had a similar situation where a man insulted me by telling me to grow up (I was 10 yrs older than him). Then a week later, sent a message asking how I am, like nothing had happened.
What I found was that they delete their chat history. Even though you still have yours, theirs is gone, so they forget that they were insensitive fools the week before.
Genius reply by you. Some guys have the most warped sense of humour. Tedious.
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